Calm Mediators, Freddie De Luca and Tracey Adamson, believe that elder mediation is a cost-effective, collaborative approach for resolving disputes that arise as people age. It focuses on issues around caregiving, healthcare, finances, living arrangements, and medical decisions, and involves all relevant parties— family members, caregivers, and other stakeholders. The need for an elder mediator often arises during times of significant change, such as just after a health diagnosis, the death of a family member, or changes in living circumstances. As people live longer, the complexity of decisions involving multiple generations increases, making elder mediation a valuable tool for resolving conflicts.
Freddie De Luca, an experienced elder mediator, highlights that effective mediation requires a mix of skills: sensitivity to the needs of older adults, understanding mental capacity and cognitive abilities, and the ability to address both practical and emotional concerns.
Whilst there is often reluctance, within families, to initiate these tricky conversations, it’s worth remembering the adage “It’s never the right time until it’s too late”.
Elder mediation is a specialist practice where the mediator facilitates respectful communication to help families reach mutually agreeable solutions. Unlike legal proceedings, it prioritises collaboration and aims to preserve relationships while addressing the needs and preferences of the elderly person. This process provides a supportive environment where families can explore solutions that promote dignity, independence, and well-being for all.
For more on elder mediation, and to learn about the gold standard set by the ‘Elder Mediation Internation Network’, join Freddie De Luca and Tracey Adamson at Calm Mediation’s online session on Thursday, 5 December at 1800 GMT. https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1082096773579
