Family Mediation

Calm Mediation Family Mediation service for couples who are divorcing, separating or already separated, grandparents and other family members.  Our highly experienced family mediators can help you make arrangements for children, property and finance.  Mediation puts you very much in control of making your own decisions and, compared with going to court, it can be quick, effective and relatively low in cost.

We can offer Legal Aid cover for eligible clients. As a not-for-profit organisation, we aim to make family mediation accessible and affordable and offer a concessionary rate for those on a low income if not eligible for Legal Aid.

We are also authorised by the Family Mediation Council to offer the ‘Mediation Voucher Scheme’ – you may get up to £500 towards your mediation costs, even if you can’t get Legal Aid.

We offer:

* MIAMs (Mediation Information and Assessment Meetings) from £80 per person

* Child Arrangements, Property and Finance and All Issues Mediation

* Mediation costs covered, for many clients, by Legal Aid or Voucher scheme

* Court forms signed at no additional cost

* Child Inclusive Mediation, where appropriate

 

About Family Mediation

 

MIAMs

If you think you would like to consider family mediation as a way of resolving issues with your former partner you can arrange to come in to our centre for a MIAM (Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting).

A MIAM is a one to one meeting with a family mediator which lasts for up to 45 minutes. You can explain your situation and the mediator will work out with you whether mediation is suitable and safe. This meeting will give you a clear idea what your options are and you can then decide how you’d like to move forward.

At the end of this session, if you want to use mediation, and the mediator agrees it is suitable, we will try to contact the other party and invite them to come in for a MIAM. If they agree to proceed and it is suitable we will invite you in for a joint mediation session which will last for 90 minutes. If the other person does not respond or does not wish to consider mediation we can sign the form(s) you need for court.

If you’d like to find our more about this ‘options meeting’ or make a booking please contact us and we can help you further.

Family Mediation sessions

In mediation sessions, you will sit down in a room with the other person and one or two of our family mediators. The mediators will help you to have a conversation about arrangements for children and/or property or finances. You will both have a chance to speak and be heard and express your wishes and feelings.

Where you reach agreement the mediator(s) will record this and write up a mediation session summary, outcome summary or parenting plan. It may take more than one mediation session to reach an agreement depending on your situation.

Contact us about Family Mediation on 0300 102 3033 or [email protected]

Memorandum of Understanding

For agreements on property and/or financial matters a Memorandum of Understanding (MOU) can be produced. This is not a legally binding document but you can seek legal advice about going to court to make it legally binding.

Advantages of Mediation over going to  Court

  • Children benefit because of reduced conflict and ability to have a say in what happens
  • Likely to be quicker and far less expensive than lengthy court proceedings
  • You, as parents, are in control of decisions and making arrangements for your family
  • Encourages a more co-operative relationship between parents

Legal Aid and Voucher Scheme for Family Mediation

If you are on a low income we can assess you at your MIAM – if you are eligible your MIAM and mediation sessions will be free. If one person is eligible for legal aid the Legal Aid Agency will pay for a MIAM for each person and the first family mediation session.

If not sure if you are eligible see https://www.gov.uk/check-legal-aid

Not eligible? You may still qualify for £500 towards your mediation costs through the government’s Mediation Voucher Scheme.

Family Mediation Fees

MIAMs

Annual Income Client Fees
Eligible for Legal Aid No fee payable
Income below £30k (with proof of income) £80 per person including signing of court forms
Income over £30k £95 per person including signing of court forms

 

Joint Mediation Sessions – Child Only Cases

Annual Income Client Fees
Eligible for Legal Aid No fee payable
Income below £30k (with proof of income) £120 per person per 90 minute session
Income over £30k £150 per person per 90 minute session

 

Joint Mediation Sessions – Property and Finance and All Issues (ie. child & finance) Cases

Joint Mediation – Property and Finance and All Issues Mediation
Annual Income Client Fees
Eligible for Legal Aid No fee payable
Income below £30k (with proof of income) £160 per person per 90 minute session
Income over £30k £190 per person per 90 minute session. This fee also includes the MOU (Memorandum of Understanding) and OFS (Open financial Statement)

What our clients say about Family Mediation

“It’s been over two years since I attended mediation but I just wanted to thank you for your efforts at the time. Your guidance gave me a lot of strength to continue with what I believe to be fair and reasonable requests. I didn’t have to go to court in the end and your advice empowered me greatly which, meant a lot to me.”

“From the start they took the time to listen to me and felt like they understood. All in all I can say a brilliant service, thank you!”

“Helpful, informative, friendly, and committed to finding a positive resolution.”

“I really appreciate what you have done for us today, thank you so much”

“I wanted to thank you sincerely for your great work yesterday at the MIAM and mediation session. You made me feel welcome, at ease and gave me peace of mind that mediation might bring some resolution”.

“Thanks a lot for the mediation session. I am glad that we were able to achieve this much”.

“The team works professionally and shows human understanding. You get the best from your visit even if the outcome may not have been your way. Thank you.”

Our Family Mediators

Ursula Little – Senior Family Mediator (Accredited)

Ursula is a highly experienced Family Mediator who has dealt with hundreds of cases of Child Arrangements, Property and Finance and All Issues mediation. Ursula trained as a Family Mediator in 2010 and is a full-time Family Mediator. She is accredited through the Family Mediation Council (FMC) to carry out private mediations and those funded through Legal Aid and the Voucher Scheme. She is also a member of National Family Mediation (NFM).

Ursula has particular experience of dealing with complex property and finance cases, including pension sharing arrangements and relocation as well as child arrangements cases including high conflict cases.

Ursula has also had experience of other types of family mediation cases including probate disputes, wills, care of the elderly and wider family breakdown.

Ursula is bilingual and is able to mediate in French.

Heidi Ingamells – Family Mediator (Accredited)

Heidi joined us in 2021 and is accredited through the Family Mediation Council (FMC) which means she can mediate for private, Legally Aided and Voucher Scheme clients. Heidi is a member of National Family Mediation (NFM).

 

Contact us about Family Mediation on 0300 102 3033 or [email protected]